I wanted to blog during wedding planning, but, of course, it ended up on the back burner. During planning, I found an excerpt on theknot.com that I loved so much that I had my youngest brother read it at the wedding. We also included Elizabeth Barrett Browning's "Sonnet 43" from Sonnets from the Portuguese, and we used "The Army Goes Rolling Along" as the recessional; everyone thought that was hilarious :o)
From the Beyond Words Daily Readings in the ABC's of Faith
“They say they will love, comfort, honor each other to the end of their days. They say they will cherish each other and be faithful to each other always. They say they will do these things not just when they feel like it, but even -- for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health -- when they don’t feel like it at all. In other words, the vows they make could hardly be more extravagant. They give away their freedom. They take on themselves each other’s burdens. They bind their lives together... The question is, what do they get in return?
“They get each other in return... There will always be the other to talk to, to listen to... There is still someone to get through the night with, to wake into the new day beside. If they have children, they can give them, as well as each other, roots and wings. If they don’t have children, they each become the other’s child.
“They both still have their lives apart as well as a life together. They both still have their separate ways to find. But a marriage made in heaven is one where a man and a woman become more richly themselves together than the chances are either of them could ever have managed to become alone.”
-- Frederick Buechner